Co existence is the fundamental law of relationships. The whole universal system functions on this law. Leadership is nurtured in your ability; maturity and willingness to co-exist.
In a world where two finger prints do not match each other, two human beings do not look exactly same; nothing is created which doesn’t have the other side of it. It is immaturity to expect two people to think in a same way. When we differ in our opinion from other person, the other person is not wrong. He or she is only looking at the same thing from a different point of view. Ability to see things from other person’s point of view facilitates the process to co-exist. Calling other people “you are wrong” and getting into arguments is the surest way to become law breakers of co existence and lead a life of loneliness in our own self created prison.
It needs courage to accept when we are wrong, culture to express our mistake and character to be empathetic towards others who are hurt due to our words and actions. Sorry seems to be the hardest word for many but the wise ones realise “sorry” as the most powerful word to resolve conflicts and bring in harmony in relationship.
Conflict is not a threat in a relationship, it is the process to understand the other person much better and create a strong binding between each other. Let us bridge this gap in understanding with wisdom. By intentions everyone is good. We are all seekers of happiness. If we approach people in a friendly way and make them say “Yes” to us... If we can make them feel that the idea is theirs and be sympathetic towards their ideas & desires... If we can appeal to nobler motives and reinforce in them the trust and the belief we have in them ... we all can become the architects of building beautiful relationships and creators of heaven and harmony in this planet.
Heaven means harmony ... When we learn to live in harmony with all created things around us we are already in heaven. To be in hell is to raise a wall in between us and others with our opinions and our relentlessness to co-exist.
Happiness belongs to those who learn to co-exist
Let us be happy people and create happiness to others and in the process of such happiness let explore our success and enrich our Leadership.
